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When your child is struggling and you are not sure whether it is a phase or something more, the uncertainty can be exhausting.

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At ImPossible Psychological Services, our child psychologists and child therapists in Singapore work with children and adolescents aged 8 to 18, and just as closely with the parents raising them. We help you understand what is driving your child's behaviour, then build a plan you can actually use at home and at school.

We are located at 360A Joo Chiat Road, a short walk from Marine Parade MRT and i12 Katong.

What Is a Child Psychologist/Therapist?

A child psychologist or therapist is a mental health professional trained to assess and treat emotional, behavioural, developmental and learning difficulties in children and adolescents. In Singapore, a child psychologist typically holds a Master’s or Doctorate in clinical, counselling or educational psychology, and works through structured assessment and evidence-based talking or behavioural therapy rather than medication.

A child therapist is the broader term. It covers child psychologists, counsellors and art therapists who provide ongoing therapeutic support to a young person.

The distinction matters when you are deciding who to see, so here it is plainly:

ProfessionalChild psychiatrist

Training
Medical doctor with psychiatry specialisation
Can diagnose
Yes
Can prescribe medication
Yes
Best suited for
Conditions where medication may be needed, such as severe ADHD, psychosis, or acute depression

ProfessionalChild psychologist

Training
Master's or Doctorate in clinical, counselling or educational psychology
Can diagnose
Yes, through formal assessment
Can prescribe medication
No
Best suited for
Formal assessments (ADHD, learning difficulties, IQ) and evidence-based therapy

ProfessionalChild behaviour psychologist

Training
Psychologist with focused training in behavioural assessment and intervention
Can diagnose
Yes, through formal assessment
Can prescribe medication
No
Best suited for
Persistent defiance, aggression, school refusal, emotional dysregulation

ProfessionalChild counsellor

Training
Master's in counselling, often registered with SAC
Can diagnose
No formal diagnosis
Can prescribe medication
No
Best suited for
Emotional support, coping skills, adjustment issues, relational difficulties

ProfessionalArt therapist

Training
Master's in art therapy
Can diagnose
No formal diagnosis
Can prescribe medication
No
Best suited for
Children who find it hard to put feelings into words

In short: if you want to understand what is going on and get it documented, you need a psychologist. If your child needs a consistent, safe space to work through feelings, a child therapist or counsellor is often the right starting point. Many families need both, and we will tell you honestly which one you are looking at.

How Do I Know If My Child Needs Therapy?

Your child likely needs a professional evaluation when a difficulty has lasted more than two to four weeks and is interfering with at least one area of daily life: sleep, appetite, friendships, family relationships, or school performance.

That is the practical threshold most clinicians use. Ordinary childhood ups and downs resolve on their own. Clinical concerns tend to persist and spread.

Signs Worth Paying Attention To:

Emotional Distress That Does Not Lift

Persistent sadness, irritability, worry, or mood swings beyond what you would expect for their age.

A Change in Behaviour You Cannot Explain

New aggression, defiance, withdrawal, clinginess, or regression to younger behaviours.

School Avoidance or a Drop in Performance

Refusing to go to school, frequent complaints of feeling unwell on school mornings, or grades falling without a clear reason.

Social Difficulty

Trouble making or keeping friends, being bullied, bullying others, or pulling away from friendships they previously valued.

Physical Complaints With No Medical Cause

Recurring headaches or stomachaches, especially before school or exams.

Sleep or Appetite Changes

Difficulty falling asleep, nightmares, or noticeable changes in eating.

Talk of Self-Harm or Hopelessness

This warrants immediate attention, not a wait-and-see approach.

If your child has expressed thoughts of harming themselves, please contact us directly, or call the Samaritans of Singapore (SOS) 24-hour hotline at 1767 or IMH’s Mental Health Helpline at 6389 2222.

Who We Help

We work with children and adolescents aged 8 to 18. Because an eight-year-old and a sixteen-year-old need very different things from a therapist, we adjust the approach accordingly.

Ages 8 to 9: Early Primary

At this stage, most of the therapeutic work happens through the parents.

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Children this young often cannot describe what they feel, so we use expressive methods and behavioural strategies, and we spend a significant portion of our time coaching you on what to do differently at home.

Common concerns: separation anxiety, tantrums and meltdowns, toileting regression, difficulty settling in school, early signs of ADHD or learning difficulty, sibling conflict.

Ages 10 to 12: Upper Primary and PSLE Years

This is when academic pressure meets emerging self-awareness. Children begin comparing themselves to peers, and the stakes around PSLE can make ordinary anxiety feel enormous.

Common concerns: exam anxiety, perfectionism, low self-esteem, friendship exclusion, screen and gaming overuse, motivation loss, behavioural issues at school.

Ages 13 to 18: Secondary and Post-Secondary

Adolescents need a space that is genuinely their own. Our approach here shifts toward direct individual work, with parents kept informed on themes and safety rather than session-by-session detail.

Common concerns: depression and anxiety, self-harm, body image and eating concerns, identity questions, family conflict, romantic relationships, substance use, academic burnout, social media pressure.

Concerns Our Child Behaviour Psychologists and Therapists Commonly Address

  • Anxiety, including separation anxiety, social anxiety and exam anxiety
  • Depression and low mood
  • ADHD and attention difficulties
  • Specific learning differences, including dyslexia
  • Emotional regulation and anger management
  • Oppositional and defiant behaviour
  • School refusal and academic motivation
  • Bullying, both being bullied and bullying others
  • Social and interpersonal skills
  • Grief and loss
  • Adjusting to parental separation or divorce
  • Screen, gaming and device overuse
  • Eating and body image concerns
  • Self-harm and safety concerns
  • Sex-related questions and concerns

Our Services

One-to-One Child Counselling

Individual sessions with a child therapist trained to build rapport with young people. For younger children this involves expressive and structured activity-based methods. For adolescents it looks more like conversation, skills practice and problem-solving.

Behavioural and Psychological Assessments

Psycho-educational evaluations, behavioural assessments, developmental assessments, and ADHD assessments. Reports are written to be usable, including for school and MOE submission. See assessments

Parenting Skills Training

Not a lecture on parenting. Targeted work on the specific patterns playing out in your home, whether that is escalating power struggles, inconsistent boundaries between caregivers, or managing anxiety without reinforcing it.

Family Counselling

Sessions involving parents, the child and where useful siblings, to address communication breakdowns, conflict patterns and the effects of transitions such as separation, remarriage, relocation or bereavement.

School Liaison

With your written consent, we work directly with teachers, school counsellors and Allied Educators so strategies are consistent between clinic, home and classroom.

Our Therapeutic Approaches

There is no single method that works for every child. Your child’s therapist will select and combine approaches based on their age, presenting concern and personality.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)

The most extensively researched approach for childhood anxiety and depression. Helps children identify the thoughts driving distress and test them against reality. Adapted with visual and concrete tools for younger children.

Behavioural Intervention and Parent Management Training

Structured work on antecedents, behaviours and consequences. Most effective for defiance, aggression, non-compliance and ADHD-related difficulties, and delivered largely through the parents.

Schema Therapy

Useful for adolescents with entrenched patterns of self-criticism, perfectionism or relational difficulty, examining how early experiences shaped current beliefs about themselves.

Choice Theory and Reality Therapy (CTRT)

Focuses on the choices a young person is making and the needs those choices are meeting, then builds better strategies. Effective with adolescents who resist being told what to do.

Systemic Family Therapy

Treats the difficulty as belonging to the family system rather than the child alone. Particularly relevant where the same conflict repeats regardless of which child is involved.

What to Expect

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Intake session with child and parents (90 minutes)We start with you, usually without your child present. This may be followed by speaking to your child individually. We gather developmental history, school context, family background and your specific concerns, and we clarify what you are hoping for.

02

Meeting your child (50 minutes)The first session with your child is mostly about rapport. Nothing heavy, no interrogation. Your child needs to feel that this room is safe before any real work happens.

03

Formulation and planYour child’s therapist shares what they understand to be happening, recommends an approach and an indicative number of sessions, and flags whether a formal assessment or psychiatric referral would be useful.

04

Ongoing sessions and parent workTypically weekly or fortnightly, 50 minutes each. Parent updates and coaching are built in, and you will usually leave with something specific to practise at home.

05

Progress reviewWe review formally with you every four to six sessions. If it is working, we continue. If it is not, we change the approach or refer you to someone better suited. We will tell you when therapy can stop.

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Cost of Child Therapy in Singapore

Rates vary with the qualifications and experience of the psychologist or counsellor. Sessions outside regular clinic hours and on weekends carry an additional $40 per hour.

If cost is a barrier, please tell us. You can request an associate psychologist or associate counsellor at a lower fee. These are Master’s-level therapists working toward full registration, under close supervision by our senior clinical psychologist. We would rather see your child at a rate that works than not see them at all.

We will also point you to subsidised options where they suit you better, including the public hospital route via polyclinic referral, school-based support through REACH, and Family Service Centres offering sliding-scale fees.

How to Choose the Right Therapist for Your Child: A Guide for Parents

Why Parents Choose ImPossible

We Work With the Whole System, Not Just the Child

Children do not exist in isolation. Our approach involves parents, and where you consent, the school. This is the difference between a child who behaves well in a therapy room and a child whose life actually improves.

An Experienced Multidisciplinary Team

Clinical psychologists, counselling psychologists, and counsellors, so we can match your child to the right clinician rather than fitting your child to whoever is available. Each team member’s qualifications are published on our site.

We Assess Before We Treat

Where the picture is unclear, we recommend proper assessment rather than months of therapy aimed at the wrong target.

Reports You Can Actually Use

Assessment reports written to support school and MOE applications, documenting functional impact rather than just listing a diagnosis.

Honest About Fit and Scope

If your child needs a psychiatrist, a speech therapist, an occupational therapist or a subsidised public service, we will say so and help you get there.

A Private, Discreet Location

Our clinic entrance on Joo Chiat Road is positioned for privacy. Accessible from Marine Parade MRT, multiple bus routes, and with carpark access directly opposite.

Ready to Speak to Someone?

If you have been watching your child struggle and wondering whether to act, that wondering is usually itself a signal. Early support is consistently easier and shorter than late support.

You do not need a referral, a diagnosis, or a clear explanation of what is wrong. You just need to start the conversation.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I know if my child needs therapy or is just going through a phase?

If the difficulty has lasted more than two to four weeks and is disrupting sleep, eating, friendships, family life or school, it is worth a professional evaluation. A phase generally stays contained to one area and resolves on its own. A clinical concern tends to persist and spread across areas of life.

You do not need to be certain before booking. A single consultation with a child psychologist can tell you whether to watch and wait or to intervene, and that clarity is valuable on its own.

My child does not want to go. What should I do?

Book the intake session first. We usually start with you, so their reluctance does not block the process, and it often means the first thing that changes is what you are doing at home rather than what your child is asked to do.

If your child is old enough to have a view, involve them in a limited way. Let them choose the appointment time, or agree to a trial of two sessions with a genuine option to raise concerns afterwards. Forced attendance rarely produces good therapeutic work, but almost no child stays resistant once they discover the therapist is not there to scold them.

Do I need a doctor's referral to see a child therapist in Singapore?

No. You can approach a private clinic directly with no referral. A referral is only needed for subsidised care through public hospitals, which requires a polyclinic or GP referral.

How quickly can we get an appointment?

Private appointments are typically available within days. This is the main practical advantage over the public route, where waiting times for child development and child guidance services can extend from several weeks to several months.

How much does a child therapist cost in Singapore?

At our clinic, individual sessions are $180 to $280 for 50 minutes, with a 90-minute first consultation at the same rate band. Across private practices in Singapore, child therapy generally ranges from roughly $180 to $360 or more per session, depending on the clinician's seniority.

Formal psychological assessments are priced separately, from $450 to $2,400 and above depending on the scope of testing required, because they involve multiple testing hours plus scoring, interpretation and report writing.

Are there subsidies for child therapy in Singapore?

Yes, through several routes:

  • Public hospitals. With a polyclinic or GP referral, subsidised care is available at services such as the KKH Department of Child Development, the NUH Child Development Unit, and the IMH Child Guidance Clinic.
  • School-based support. IMH's REACH teams work with schools and provide support at no cost to families. Your child's school counsellor can initiate this.
  • Family Service Centres. FSCs across Singapore offer counselling on sliding-scale fees based on household income.
  • Our associate clinicians. We offer lower rates with supervised Master's-level therapists if cost is a constraint.

Can I use MediSave or MediShield Life for my child's therapy?

Generally no. MediSave and MediShield Life do not typically cover outpatient psychotherapy or psycho-educational assessments provided by psychologists in private practice.

What sometimes does provide coverage:

  • Corporate or employer-sponsored health plans, particularly those with outpatient specialist or mental health riders
  • International or expatriate private health insurance, which more often includes psychology sessions
  • Some Integrated Shield Plan riders, though usually only for psychiatric treatment by a registered medical practitioner rather than psychology sessions

Check your policy for the terms "psychology," "psychotherapy" and "outpatient mental health" specifically, and ask whether a psychiatrist referral is required for reimbursement. We can provide itemised receipts for claims.

What is the difference between a child psychiatrist, a child psychologist and a child counsellor?

  • Child psychiatrists are medical doctors. They diagnose and can prescribe medication.
  • Child psychologists hold a Master's or Doctorate in psychology. They conduct formal assessments such as ADHD and cognitive testing, and deliver evidence-based therapy. They do not prescribe.
  • Child counsellors hold a Master's in counselling and focus on emotional support, coping skills and relational work rather than formal diagnosis.

For most presenting concerns, a child psychologist or child therapist is the appropriate starting point. If medication becomes a consideration, we will refer you to a psychiatrist and continue the therapeutic work alongside.

Are child psychologists licensed by MOH in Singapore?

No. Unlike doctors, dentists and nurses, psychologists and counsellors in Singapore are not currently licensed or regulated by the Ministry of Health. There is no legal restriction on calling oneself a psychologist or therapist.

This is why you should verify credentials yourself. Look for a relevant Master's or Doctorate, registration with the Singapore Psychological Society, the Singapore Register of Psychologists or the Singapore Association for Counselling, and active supervision for any clinician who is not yet fully registered. At ImPossible, all our practitioners are registered with either the Singapore Psychological Society or Singapore Association for Counselling.

What if my child does not connect with their therapist?

Tell us. Therapeutic fit is a real clinical variable, not a matter of politeness, and a child who does not feel safe with their therapist will not make progress regardless of the clinician's expertise.

We will either adjust the approach, or match your child with a different therapist on our team, or refer you elsewhere if no one here is the right fit. None of these outcomes is a failure. Give it three or four sessions before judging, since initial reluctance is common and usually passes, but do not persist for months with a poor fit.

How involved will I be as a parent?

Substantially. Parents are active partners in child therapy, not spectators.

  • The first session is usually with you, to gather history and context.
  • For younger children (8 to 9), much of the intervention is delivered through you. Expect regular joint sessions and specific strategies to practise at home.
  • For older children and adolescents, individual sessions are more private, but you will still receive updates on themes, progress and any safety concerns, and will be brought in for review sessions.

Children whose parents engage with the between-session work make faster progress. This is one of the most consistent findings in child therapy research.

How long is each session and how often will we come?

Sessions are 50 minutes, with a 90-minute first consultation. Sessions usually start weekly or fortnightly, then space out as your child stabilises and gains skills.

How many sessions will my child need?

It depends on what you are treating:

  • Mild to moderate emotional or behavioural concerns: commonly 6 to 12 sessions
  • Anxiety or depression with a clear focus: typically 8 to 16 sessions of CBT
  • Complex trauma, entrenched behavioural patterns or neurodevelopmental support: longer term, often with periods of more and less intensive work
  • Formal assessment only: usually 2 to 4 appointments plus report preparation

We review progress with you every four to six sessions so you are never in open-ended therapy without a clear rationale. We will also tell you when it is time to stop.

How is confidentiality handled between the therapist, my child and me?

Your child gets meaningful privacy about session content. You get the information you need to parent well and keep your child safe.

In practice this means:

  • Specific session content generally stays between your child and their therapist. Adolescents in particular will not open up if they believe everything is reported home.
  • You receive updates on overarching themes, progress toward goals, and what you can do to help.
  • Confidentiality has clear limits, and we explain these to your child at the outset. If there is risk of harm to your child or someone else, or a disclosure of abuse, we will involve you and, where legally required, the relevant authorities.
  • You are the legal guardian and have rights over your child's records. We will discuss with you how to exercise those rights in a way that does not undermine your child's trust in the process.

How will I know therapy is working?

Look for change in daily functioning rather than change in the therapy room:

  • Fewer, shorter or less intense emotional outbursts
  • Recovery from upset that takes minutes rather than hours
  • Return to activities and friendships they had withdrawn from
  • Better sleep and appetite
  • Improved school attendance and engagement, which typically lags emotional improvement by several weeks
  • Willingness to talk to you about difficult things
  • Your child using a strategy from therapy without being prompted

Progress is rarely linear. Behaviour sometimes worsens briefly when a child starts addressing difficult material, which is not a sign therapy is failing. Raise what you observe at review sessions.

Can a therapy report get my child extra time for PSLE or a Mother Tongue exemption?

A formal assessment report from a registered psychologist can support an application to the school and MOE for Access Arrangements, including extra time, a separate examination room, rest breaks, or a reader or scribe, and for Mother Tongue Language exemption, replacement or a reduced syllabus.

The school and MOE decide, not the psychologist. The report needs to document how the difficulty functionally affects your child's learning and examination performance, not simply state a diagnosis. Apply early, ideally at least a year before the examination year, and be aware schools generally prefer assessments completed within the last two to three years.

Will therapy appear on my child's school or government records?

No. Private therapy records are held by our clinic and are not linked to school records, MOE systems or any government database. Your child's school is informed only if you consent in writing.

Will a mental health diagnosis affect my child's National Service or future career?

Private therapy records are not shared with MINDEF, CMPB or prospective employers without your consent.

On National Service specifically: during pre-enlistment medical screening, disclosing a relevant mental health history allows CMPB to make an appropriate PES status and vocation assignment. The purpose is safe deployment, not exclusion or penalty. Concealing a significant history is the riskier choice, since it can place a young person in a role that is genuinely unsuitable for them.

On careers: most private-sector employers in Singapore have no access to and no right to request therapy records. A small number of roles involve statutory medical screening. In these cases, evidence of having addressed a difficulty early and successfully is generally viewed more favourably than an untreated history.

The practical calculation for most families is this. Untreated childhood anxiety, depression or behavioural difficulty carries far greater long-term cost to a young person's education, relationships and employability than a confidential therapy record ever will.

Can therapy sessions be scheduled around school hours?

Yes. We offer after-school, evening and weekend appointments. Sessions outside regular clinic hours and on weekends carry an additional $40 per hour.

Do you offer online sessions?

Yes, for adolescents in particular, online sessions can work well and remove travel time. Younger children and any work involving expressive methods generally do better in person. Your child's therapist will advise on what suits your situation.